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一位前國家籃球隊隊員和他女兒的真實故事

女子籃球,家庭,與生命的價值 (中譯)Girl Basketball, Family, Life (in Chinese)

女子籃球,家庭,與生命的價值 (中譯)Girl Basketball, Family, Life (in Chinese)

陳凱著 吳必忠譯

獻給我的女兒艾麗克斯:「一個人如何打籃球體現一個人如何生活 」

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這是一位前(中國)國家籃球隊隊員和他女兒的真實故事,一次家長與子女間愛的交融。

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一直以來,我都認為我女兒在籃球運動上只能算是一個普通人,一個和很多人一樣對籃球無比熱愛、渴望勝利、但卻資質平平的普通人,所以最初我對她選擇籃球運動並不抱太大希望。 在她剛接觸籃球的時侯,我甚至以我曾是中國國家隊隊員的經歷告誡她「這可是一項野蠻的運動!」我鄭重地對她說「你真的確定你想從事這項運動嗎?」沒有多餘的話語,她用「砰砰」 響起的運球聲來告訴我,這就是她的回答。 從那時起,我們便在後院開始了她的籃球訓練。 只是有誰知道,我的女兒要打好籃球將要面臨多大困難,她是平足、沒有速度、沒有彈跳力甚至連跑動的時候手臂也是笨拙搖擺的。 當然,也許身高是她的一個優勢,我身高2米,我妻子身高1.8米,我相信我的女兒應該能長得比較高。 但眾所周知,長得高並不代表就能打好球,面對女兒這樣的身體條件,我心裡不無擔憂。 平時我都比較早就去球場的。 今天我依舊早去,只是我的心格外難受。 前幾天艾麗克斯曾抱怨說自己的左膝蓋有些疼,因為她那裡去年做過前十字韌帶的修復手術,我不知道現在她的膝蓋怎麼樣了。 應該說本賽季到目前為止,她的狀態都很不錯,在之前的三場小聯賽中,她表現得相當出色。 她不僅沒有讓手術影響到她技術的發揮,而且她還打出了她前所未有的高水平。 對於她狀態的復甦我很激動,甚至感到欣喜若狂。 直到兩天前她告訴我她膝蓋的疼痛,我才知道她出色的背後,有著強忍傷痛的堅持。 那是在一次球隊的例行訓練時隊友不小心撞傷的。 她的膝蓋腫脹了起來,裡面充斥了一些淤血。 不過她只是把它當作一般的小傷來對待。 此時我的女兒已經是中學聯賽第三賽季的球員。 經過長期艱苦訓練,正是在技術上全面爆發、成績上收穫累累的季節。 難過的是,她卻不得不經受這樣傷痛的考驗。 我不敢對女兒接下來的比賽和前途多想,心中滿是了擔憂、害怕和沮喪。 當我走進球館的時侯她正在固定自行車上做腿部練習,由於校隊在球場的一端做著訓練,做完腿部練習後她就到另一端做投籃練習。 我走過去給她給撿球和喂球,這樣的練習我們曾做過無數次了。 「你覺得怎麼樣?」我強忍著自己焦急的心情。 她沒有看我。「不舒服……當我收緊肌肉的時候,就感覺裡面很疼。」 她的聲音微微的顫抖。 我走近她,蹲下來檢查她的膝蓋,揉捏她的腿部。 手術疤痕仍然紅潤光滑。 我很難過,默默地站了起來,我覺察到她眼裡閃爍著淚光。 然而,當注視我女兒的臉時,我驚訝的發現她的表情充滿了堅定。 那一刻,我突然有股把我近期一直縈繞在我腦子裡的想法一股腦向她訴說的衝動,雖然我之前並沒有打算這麼早就告訴她。 「艾麗克斯!」我雙手抓著她的肩膀。 「我知道我平時對你非常嚴格和非常苛刻。 但是,有些事情我得告訴你……。」 突然,我哽咽住了,淚水如決堤般噴涌而出,我無法繼續講下去了。 我發現我的一隻手仍在她肩上,但另一隻捂著自己的嘴巴,眼淚順著我的臉頰不住往下淌。 然後我緊緊地將她抱在我的懷裡。 此刻時間靜止了。 在馬爾伯勒學校體育館,在耀眼的燈光下,我雙臂緊緊擁抱著我的女兒,將她完全地攬入我的心窩。 我在她耳邊喃喃說: 「我多麼愛你,多麼愛你,艾麗克斯……作為你的父親我感到非常自豪,非常驕傲……。」 我嘗到自己急切親吻她額頭時流下的淚水。 「我也愛你,爸爸!」她啜泣著對我說。 那一刻,我意識到我的眼淚不再是悲傷和沮喪,而是由衷的喜悅和內心的全然釋放。 我意識到,她不但知道自己在這項運動上已經取得了哪些成就,而且她知道有什麼東西正擺在她的面前,同時她也做好了應對將來困難和挑戰的心理準備。 我意識到,她這樣如此堅定的信心,足以戰勝未來發生的一切。 同時我意識到,我們彼此相愛,無論將來發生什麼事情,我們一家人都會幸福的生活下去。 這一刻,我沉浸在她魅力和品格所帶給我的激勵中。 而經歷了這幾天難以言狀的難過後,我的內心重又回到了平靜。 我們是生活的主人。 看著女兒1米85的挺拔身姿,我站在那裡,輕聲呼喊她的名字。 我對她說:「你已經展現了你自己!你已經證明了你在這項運動中的價值!你是生活的強者!」我欣慰地笑了笑,接著半開玩笑地正色道: 「畢竟,那都是源於你遺傳了我的基因。」 她倏地笑了起來,猶如一朵夏日清晨絢麗綻放的牽牛花,多麼美麗的一幅畫面。 —————————————————–

GIRL BASKETBALL, FAMILY, LIFE 女子籃球,家庭,與生命的價值

-A TRUE AND CONTINUING SAGA OF A RETIRED CHINESE NATIONAL TEAM BASKETBALL PLAYER AND HIS AMERICAN DREAM-

By Kai Chen, 1-07-2003

DEDICATED TO MY DAUGHTER ALEX

「The way one approaches the game is the way one approaches life」

Prelude

I had always thought of her as just another player, with ordinary talent and a big heart and the love of basketball. I remembered that when she just started to get into this game, I even tried to discourage her. 「It』s a brutal game.」 stating my own experience as a former basketball player for the Chinese National Team. 「Are you sure you really want to get into this?」 The only answer I got was the sound of dribbling the ball. Sure I got a basketball stand in the backyard the moment she started running. But how did I know she had flat feet, no speed and jumping ability and an awkward swing of arms when she runs? I know she is going to be tall since I am 6』7」 and my wife Susan is 5』11」. But being tall does not mean she can play the game. Everybody knows that.

I arrived the gym a little early, as usual. But this day I was unusually distressed. I was concerned about the pain she had complained in her left knee. She had an ACL reconstructive surgery last year on that knee. So far she had felt fine. And she had performed quite well in the last three tournaments this season. Not only she did not show signs of rustiness. She had some of her best games ever. I was excited and even ecstatic about her recovery, till two days ago she told me about the pain. A teammate inadvertently ran into her during a routine practice. Her left knee had swollen and there was some fluid in it. She was just about to put things together when she first had the injury in her sophomore year. Now just when she was about to blossom into herself in her junior season, now just when she was about to taste her own fruit of hard work, she had to…. I did not even want to spell out the fear, the uncertainty, the helplessness.

She was working on a stationary bicycle when I walked in. After she was done, she picked up a ball to shoot at one end of the court while the school varsity was practicing at the other end. I walked over to rebound and feed her the ball as I had done for thousands of times.

「How do you feel?」 I felt compelled by my own urge to know. 「Shaky.」 She answered without looking at me. 「When I tighten my muscles, there is a pain inside.」 Her voice became a little unsteady. I approached her, squatted and examined her knee. I reached and touched her leg. The surgical scars were still red and shiny. I stood up. I could see a little moist sparkled in her eyes. There was a little helplessness. Yet she was quiet with that typical determined look on her face. I suddenly realized that this couple of days I was preparing something to say to her in my head, a speech I never thought I would come up with this early.

「Alex,」 I reached out my hands to hold her shoulder. 「I know that I am your harshest critic. Yet there is something that needs to be said….」

Suddenly I was choked with emotions. I could not continue. I found that one of my hands was still holding her, but the other hand was covering my own mouth. Tears started to trickle down my cheeks. Then both of my hands held her tightly in my arms. Time stood still.

Here in the Marlborough School gym, under the glaring lights, I was holding my daughter in my arms, I was embracing her fully in my heart, as I murmured words into her ears: 「I love you so much, so much , Alex…. You make me feel so proud to be your father. So proud….」 I could taste my own tears with my feverish kisses on her forehead. 「I love you, too, Dad.」 is all I heard through her sobs. I realized at that moment that my tears were not tears of sadness and disappointment, but tears of happiness and deliverance. I realized that not only she knows how much she had achieved since she started playing this game, she knows what lay ahead and she is ready to face the challenge. I realized that she had such a flare of confidence that no matter what happens in her future, she will be OK. And I realized that no matter what happens in the future in our family, we will be OK. For a few moments, I was immersed in her grace and dignity. I felt a serenity coming back to me after some unspeakable distress. I realized words can not express what I felt: Life is being lived.

As I stood there watching her 6』1」 beautiful frame, I whispered her name to myself as I thought. 「 You have shown me who you are. You have proven to yourself that you are worthy of this game. You are a winner in life.」 I smiled and felt like joking as I extracted myself from the moment: 「After all, you got my genes.」 She laughed and her face radiated like a Summer morning glory. What a beautiful sight!

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